I wear make-up, padded, push up bras, and I dye my hair. I try to make the most of myself when I’m out and about so people who see me see the best me I can be. But lately I’ve been wondering is this a form of false advertising. Now I’m on the dating scene I find myself pondering if it’s wrong to put yourself out there as one person when at home you’re chilling in your onesie with skin like a teenager?
See, when I whip off the make-up I look awful, but with my trusty slap on I can pass as an ok looking human being. So is it wrong for me to go on dates looking one way when, should things progress, they will eventually have to see me looking shocking?
I do worry that if I start out on a relationship with someone that, when they finally see the real me, physically speaking, they’ll run a mile and wont be seen for dust. I worry that they will turn on me, saying they fell for a well preened lady, one who looked good, with bigger, firmer breasts. But I can’t be that girl all the time, I need a break! And because of that I wonder, maybe I should go on dates make-up free, in my casual clothes, not making an effort. Forewarned is forearmed, so they say. At least then they would know what they were getting into!
What do you think? Is a bit of false advertising when dating ok, or should you let the real you out immediately?